In the comments section of a Rolling Stone article, I got into a debate about police brutality and the idea that it's inherent to what government is. Absolute compliance, or risk of death. That is, the police need to be obeyed, absolutely.
If I understood correctly, the concern seems to be that unrestricted force for noncompliance is necessary to mitigate escalation into anarchy. People will otherwise keep pushing limits until the whole system falls apart.
i.e. Government itself is the problem.
I used to be an anarchist. One thing that changed my mind was the realization that there are no people anywhere in the world, without government. There aren't even any Libertarian governments, let alone Voluntaryist or Anarchist.
The problem is that government is also an organizational tool which is extremely effective. It makes us capable of so much more than we are without it - which includes having the power to dominate anyone within its sphere of influence. A sphere of influence which grows until stopped by another's, leaving nowhere ungoverned.
Our only real defense against government is better government.